QUESTIONS YOU NEED TO ASK BEFORE YOU MIGHT EVER ON A VERY TENTATIVE BASIS CONCLUDE THAT POSSIBLY YOU MIGHT AT SOME FUTURE POINT, SUCH AS SIX MONTHS LATER OR A YEAR OR TWO LATER, EVENTUALLY YOURSELF BE GOOD AND HEALTHY FOR YOUR ADULT YOUNGER OR ADULT SIGNIFICANTLY YOUNGER CURRENT ACQUAINTANCE IN A POSSIBLE NEW ROLE FOR HIM (OR HER) AS A PROSPECTIVE NEW PERSONAL FRIEND OR PROSPECTIVE NEW ROMANTIC PARTNER, OR AS A PROSPECTIVE NEW ROOMMATE OR HOUSEMATE, FOR YOU:

--Does he currently appear to enjoy talking with you in person, as might be conveyed if he smiles directly at you, if he appears to be calm and composed when in your presence, and if he initiates friendly conversations with you?

--When he happens to see you for the very first time after you politely enter a room or building where he happens to be situated, or after he enters a room of building where you yourself are situated, does his spontaneous facial expression appear to register delight or joy or strong affinity or enthusiasm or adoration toward you?

---Does he on his own initiative choose to sit down next to you at a table where you are yourself seated, on at least one occasion during the time period ever since you began interacting with him in person?

--Does he convey an apparent affinity toward you through occasional friendly gestures in which he pats you on your shoulder or he briefly holds your hand politely when you are seated and happened to have your own hand on the table, in an apparent expression of kind appreciation or kind empathy or camaraderie toward you by himself?

--Does he talk openly to you about himself in conversations with you that he himself initiates, such as if he happens to volunteer personal information such as: 
the city or county or state or foreign nation where he was born; 
the foreign nation that accounts for the majority of his own ancestry (whether that be Ireland, England, Scotland, Australia, Canada, Germany, France, Sweden, etc.);
the high school or college he graduated from or attended;
which foreign languages (German, French, Swedish, or Spanish, for instance) he has himself studied; 
what has been the happiest moment of his life so far?;
and which achievement of his so far in his life is the accomplishment  or milestone he is proudest of?

--Has your involvement with him (or her) increased his (or her) own freedoms and opportunities and options in life without any "quid pro quo" of any type having ever developed that might have undermined that stronger freedom for him (or her) in any way?

---Is he less likely to complain that "everyone tells lies to me on a frequent basis" than before you began interacting with him?

--Does he appear to express a more hopeful outlook about the future of humanity and the future of human civilization, than before you began interacting with him?

---Does he (or she) appear to feel significantly safer as a human being and local resident than before you met him (or her)?

---Does he (or she) appear more confident about his own life and his own future and about his own talents as a human being than before you began interacting with him (or her) in person?

---Does he appear to exhibit a stronger sense of "platonic purpose" in his life than before you began interacting with him?

--Does he stand erectly and reveal his full height more often, and slouch less often, than before you met him?

--Does he come across as being more ambitious in an honorable way than before you began interacting with him?

---Does he appear to be more optimistic, more cheerful, and less cynical than before you met him?

--Does he comment more frequently about platonic passions of his (such as the Louisiana-style "Cajun" cuisine or a favorite outdoor sport of his, for instance) than before you met him?

--Does he appear more enthusiastic and revealing more of a sense of sublime delight as a human being than before you began interacting with him?

---Does he appear to be more of a proven leader than before you began interacting with him?

---Does he appear to take himself more seriously, overall, than before you became acquainted with him?

---Does he appear to love himself more as a human being than before you became acquainted with him?

---Does he appear to have fewer anxieties and fewer fears and fewer inter-personal conflicts in his life than before you began interacting with him in person?

--Does he appear to be more creatively vital as a human being than before you became acquainted with him?

--Does he appear to be more elegantly attired and more attractively attired than before you began interacting with him in person?

--Does he appear to be medically healthier than before you met him?

--Does he appear to more consistently eat or drink healthful foods or beverages --- very good for his own medical health and creatively vital lifespan --- than before you began interacting with him?

---Has he had fewer motor-vehicle accidents on the roadway and driven his motor vehicle more cautiously and with greater protection of his personal safety than before you first met him?

--Has he suffered fewer injuries from accidents of any type than before you became acquainted with him?

--Does he (or she) appear to be more devoted than before you met him to himself (or herself) leading a law-abiding life in which he (or she) strongly supports crime deterrence and law-enforcement?

--Does he appear to be getting a healthful and revitalizing full night's sleep every night, including full REM or deep sleep, on a more consistent basis than before you met him?

---Does he currently enjoy full freedom from very harmful addictions such as the addiction to tobacco or the addiction to marijuana or any other illicit drug?

--Has the number of occasions in which he pursues binge drinking as a consumer of drinking alcohol during his leisuretime declined in the time period since you became acquainted with him?

---Has any previous habit of his (if any) of his patronizing alcoholic bars or nightclubs as a paying customer after 12:01 a.m. in the morning diminished significantly in the period since you first met him?

---Does he appear to be more empathetic toward and friendlier toward a wide range of persons than before you began associating with him?

---Does he appear to be less of a "loner" (if applicable) than before you began interacting with him?

---Does he appear to enjoy interacting politely with children and other under-age youths significantly more than when you first began associating with him?

--Does he appear to be more philanthropic as a human being, and more supportive than before you met him of Freedom of Religion and Freedom of Speech involving law-abiding religion-related or speech-related conduct?

---Does he smile more often, and toward a wider range of people, than before you became acquainted with him?

---Does he appear to chuckle or laugh delightedly more often than before you met him?

---Does he verbalize more statements that begin with "I like" or "I love" or "I adore", or that express a marvelous enthusiasm and zest for life or "joie de vivre" as the French put it so well, than before you began interacting with him?

---Does he (or she) appear to get angry less often than before you met him (or her)?

---Does he (or she) verbalize cuss words or profanity in everyday life less often than before you met him (or her)?

---Does he enjoy several of the same leisuretime activities (such as blog-writing or creative writing or freelance journalism or public-policy brainstorming or tennis or racquetball or roller skating or bicycling or spicy-foods cooking or healthy-foods dining) as yourself?

---Are there several sports or other athletic activities, such as paddle-boating or playing tennis or racquetball or dancing or roller-skating or hiking or jogging, that he has apparently enjoyed or might eventually enjoy pursuing together with you?

---Does he appear to be "en forme", as the French phrase it so concisely, more often than before you met him?

---Does he appear to be more aware of and more confident about his various strengths and attributes (such as phenomenal talent at acting, astounding eloquence through his facial mannerisms and hand gestures and gait and overall body language, a flair for fashionwear-modeling, strong talent at dancing, physical fitness, great athletic talent, very impressive independent-mindedness, a flair for direct and incisive and calmly stated oral communications, a very apparent career-related potential as a movie director or film-maker with an eye for detail, a determined geniality and kindly hospitality and tactful politeness toward a wide range of people) than before you became acquainted with him?