THE NEXT TIME YOU MEET AN INDIVIDUAL WHO DIRECTLY STATES TO YOU THAT HE IS 'GAY' OR 'HOMOSEXUAL' OR 'BISEXUAL' OR 'TRANSSEXUAL' OR 'TRANSGENDER' OR 'EMOTIONALLY AND AESTHETICALLY TRANSSEXUAL WHILE CHOOSING NOT TO EVER UNDERGO ANY SEX-CHANGE OPERATION ON MYSELF' OR 'TRANSVESTITE', AND HE WANTS YOU TO BECOME MUTUAL-CONSENT PERSONAL FRIENDS WITH HIM, PLEASE, PLEASE ASK YOURSELF THE FOLLOWING QUESTIONS BEFORE YOU EVEN CONSIDER AGREEING TO HIS REQUEST:

--Does he make at least two noteworthy statements to you that you are very sure are flagrantly false in nature?

If you yourself are almost never faulted by anyone for dishonesty, keep in mind that you are NOT legally required by the Texas Legislature or the U.S.  Congress, or by the Austin City Council or the Travis County Commissioners Court, to yourself associate with that person in your off-duty time or personal life or roommate life.

--Does he ever lay a hand on you or physically rub up against you or stand too close to you in a context that strikes you as being "too intrusive" or "excessively sexual" or "lewd" or that makes you uncomfortable in any way?

If you yourself take pride in NOT laying a hand on anyone with impropriety or incivility, keep in mind that the Texas Legislature and federal legal system cannot legally require you to associate in your own off-duty hours (the periods of your life when you have the GREATEST control over whom you associate with) with that type of individual.

---Does he frequently appear to stare or gaze at your own crotch or behind?

Either way, this could be a very alarming indication that he has alleged "sexual intent" toward you, which, if you yourself do not agree to have any sexual contact with him, comprises possible evidence of alleged criminal intent toward you on his part. His rapacious glances at your crotch or behind suggest that he may indeed be a sexual-predator capable of committing the felony crime of rape.

---Does he ever make statements to you that appear to be sexual innuendos or risque double entendres (possibly accompanied by a mischievous grin or leer on his face), or sexual insinuations that make you uncomfortable, or does he ever state or indicate to you that he occasionally or frequently fantasizes about you yourself when he masturbates in his bathroom or on his bed?

Any such statement or indication or confession from him could be a possible warning sign that the cited "gay" person might not be compatible with you or trustworthy by you as a prospective friend.

---Does he apparently attempt to establish any type of "quid pro quo" with you, meaning that he is attempting to take advantage of his position of influence or power over you of some type, such as his career-related involvement with you or his role as your clergyman or as an elder in your church or as a leader in your religious denomination or civic group, to attempt to pressure you into having some type of physical contact or sexual contact with him?

Any such "quid pro quo" is very unethical and could also be a flagrantly illegal violation of your own civil rights and human rights in regard to which you could possibly file a successful civil-rights complaint against him through the federal government.

--Is he significantly older than you are, and frequently makes comments to you indicating that he "knows everything there is to know" about any particular subject, a sign that he seeks to intimidate you based on his own seniority or possibly based on his own higher income level or greater societal prestige than your own might be during that particular early period in your own adult life?

If any of these are applicable, this is a very alarming red flag that the self-identified "gay" person is NOT someone who might be appropriate as a prospective friend or associate of yours.

---Does he frequently make statements to you that appear to undermine your own self-confidence, such as if he frequently states to you, "You are doing it all wrong" even though your own conduct is honest and law-abiding?

If so, this is a very alarming red flag about that cited "gay" person NOT being someone you would want for a friend or associate or housemate or roommate.

---Does he ever directly or indirectly ask you at any time whether "you have ever done it with a guy before", with himself possibly adding that he has observed that "most men are somewhat bisexual, in my opinion".

Any such comments from him point to his having a possible alleged slyly manipulative intent toward you that calls into question whether he could make an honorable and polite and law-abiding personal friend for you.

--Does he make comments to you about rape of a male person and then add that "we all know why men never file charges when they get raped by a woman, since those men enjoyed the rape or are embarrassed that a woman raped them, so they won't complain to the police about it"?

Any such slyly manipulative statement by the cited gay person could be a red-flag warning sign that he plans to get you drunk or high on marijuana, and he plans to then unzip your trousers at a point when you are fatigued and under the influence of alcohol or drugs, with the allegedly scheming gay person then planning to force his tongue upon your own male organ in a flagrant case of alleged forced-fellatio rape in which you would be the victim of a sex crime.

All of this, needless to say, comprises a red-flag warning that the cited "gay person" is NOT conscientious enough or law-abiding enough to ever be a mutual-consent personal friend for yourself.

--Does he ever ask you "if you have ever done it when you are high"?

If so, this is an obvious red-flag warning that he plans to offer you an illicit drug such as marijuana at some point, with himself then allegedly seizing that opportunity to unzip your trousers and force his tongue upon your own male organ at a time when your own guard is down and your own ability to prevent the forced-fellatio rape scene is significantly undermined.

--Does he ever ask you if you "like to experiment in your romantic life"?

That very word, "experiment", comprises a flagrant red-flag warning to you that he is possibly scheming to take advantage of your own gentlemanly and polite style at a time when you are either too fatigued or too inebriated to effectively stop that alleged possible gay-male sexual predator.

--Does he ever criticize your own lifestyle choices, such as if he comments to you that "your lifestyle is too straight; you need to put some wild adventure into your life, such as by going on a bar-hopping spree!"

Any such comments to you by the cited "gay person" serves as a flagrant warning sign that he is NOT respectful enough or honorable enough to be a true and kind personal friend for you.

--Does he attempt to intimidate you with his own cited "socioeconomic status," such as his cited "PhD" that he earned at a university?

Any such intimidation conduct by the cited gay person makes it very clear that he would NOT make a good and honorable and kind friend for yourself.

---Does he ever state to you that he frequents bars or nightclubs as one of his leading pastimes?

If so, this could indicate that the cited "gay" person leads a lifestyle in which he chooses to have sex with a variety of anonymous sex partners he "picks up" at those bars or nightclubs, or in which he is frequently getting inebriated, and possibly high on marijuana or some other illicit drug. All of this should serve as a red-flag warning sign to you that his lifestyle is too addiction-prone for him to make a good and reliable personal friend for yourself.

---Does he ever brag or boast to you that "I have done it with home-delivery service employees, and I tipped them better than usual for the pizza they delivered"?

If he makes any such comment, this indicates an alarming precariousness and allegedly illegal nature of his own chosen lifestyle--warning signs that he would not make a good and honorable personal friend for yourself.

---When he glances or gazes at you, do you often sense that in he is imagining you without your clothes on?

If so, this is an obvious warning sign that he may be fantasizing about some future point in which he might attempt to pounce on you or sexually abuse you at a future time when you are inebriated and too fatigued to effectively prevent that alleged anal rape or alleged forced-fellatio rape of yourself  by himself.

--Does he ever directly state to you that he is "very attracted to the scent of your cologne"?

This comprises a red flag warning that the self-identified "gay person" is having possible sexual fantasies about being in bed with you and sniffing your cologne up close in an imaginary context when you are both naked. In addition, he may be citing your cologne as a prelude to his planned sexual "seduction" of you in a context in which he possibly plans to "get you drunk" or "get you high on marijuana" in order to sexually prey on you at a time when you are not sober.

--Does he ever directly state to you that he thinks you have "a nice ass", or that he is intrigued by the question of whether on the other side of your body you are a "ten-incher", or that he would like you to show him what your male organ looks like?

Any such comments from him indicate that he would not make a trustworthy and honorable personal friend for you.  

---Does he ever pat you on your behind or slap you on your behind?

If so, this could indicate a possible alleged fascination with your own anus or derriere that comprises a red flag about his allegedly seeking to anally sodomize you against your wishes --- to allegedly sexually assault you in a very outrageous manner --- or possibly lick your naked behind at some future point when your guard is down.

---Do you ever observe in a public restroom that if you are standing at a urinal and he is standing at a nearby urinal, he appears to be stealing a glance of your own male organ, or some other person's male organ, while you yourself are urinating?

This very apparent fascination by himself with the size and shape of your own male organ, or with the size and shape of any other restroom user's male organ, comprises an obvious red flag that he might not make a good and honorable personal friend for you.


---Does he ever state or indicate that he has a history of knowingly committing a sex crime or of pursuing sexual conduct that he knew at the time to be illegal in nature?

If you yourself are NOT that way, and you take pride in being law-abiding and honorable in your own conduct, rest assured that neither the Texas Legislature nor any other state government, nor any individual or group of individuals, can require you to associate in your own off-duty time or leisuretime or roommate life with anyone who DOES have a history of pursuing sexual conduct that he knew at the time to be illegal in nature.

---Does he ever state or indicate to you that he has participated in sexual orgies, or that he has ever had sex with a paid sexual prostitute, or that he has had sex inside a "gay bathhouse" where he was a paying customer?

If he makes any such statement to you, and each of those activities are activities you have never engaged in, this could indicate that he is not conscientious enough or honorable enough or law-abiding enough to qualify as a prospective mutual-consent personal friend for you.

---Does he ever complain to you that "some Americans of today are too Puritanical and square for my tastes, and they cramp my own style as a human being", without his clarifying exactly which specific conduct by himself in his own lifestyle prompts him to complain about others "cramping his own style"?

--Does he ever state or indicate to you that he as a self-identified "gay person"  is an alleged straight-basher, or a pathological heterophobe, with himself possibly making statements in your presence in which he refers to heterosexual women as "bitches" and in a nasty manner he refers to heterosexual men and heterosexual women as "breeders"?

If the cited "gay person" ever indicates to you that he himself is heterophobic, this comprises a possible warning sign that he would NOT be trustworthy enough or philanthropic enough to ever be a prospective personal friend for yourself.

--Does he ever state to you that "I (the self-identified gay person) never feel a need to comply with the law if I sense that that particular law isn't being enforced" or "I (the self-identified gay person) think that no one should be arrested or charged with any crime for any of the victimless crimes in America today. As long as something is mutual-consent and feels good at the time, it is perfectly fine with me."

Those types of statements to you by the cited "gay" person could be an indication that he is not conscientious enough or law-abiding enough or honorable enough to qualify as a mutual-consent personal friend of yours.

--Does he ever state or indicate to you that in a context in which he himself is not a cited sex-crimes victim, he knowingly posts naked photographs of himself or others on the Internet, or that he knowingly mails or e-mails naked photos of himself or any other person to other human beings that reveal his own or another person's naked genitals or his own or another person's naked behind?

If you yourself DO NOT pursue any such activity in your own life in any such context, keep in mind that no relative or associate of yours, and NO ONE ELSE, for that matter, can force you or require you to associate in your own personal life or off-duty hours, or in your own roommate or housing life, with anyone who DOES post explicitly naked photos of himself or others on the Internet.

--Does he repeatedly exhibit intolerance toward your own legal and Constitutional right to yourself be a member of, or choose to be affiliated with, a religious group or atheist group or anti-religious group that is NOT a group he himself is a member of or affiliated with?

If you yourself exhibit a profound respect for the Freedom of Religion and Freedom of Speech and Freedom of Association and other legal rights of individuals whose religion-related beliefs or religious-group affiliation or other civic group affiliation happens to be different from your own, keep in mind that you can spare yourself from your being harmed by a repressively censorious style in your own life if you exclude the above-cited religiously-intolerant individual from your personal life or roommate life or housing life or off-duty- hours-life.


--Does he frequently verbalize profanity or obscene speech in conversations he is having in your presence or within earshot of you?

If you yourself take pride in directly verbalizing clean speech, or G-rated speech, in your conversations with others, keep in mind that you will suffer emotionally quite a bit if you associate with an alleged "vulgar-speech advocate" during your off-duty or leisuretime hours or roommate life.

It's also noteworthy that the cited self-identified "gay" person's frequent verbalization of obscene speech in your presence may possibly indicate that he is sexually attracted to you and, if he himself is ever inebriated or high on marijuana in your presence, he may attempt to unzip your trousers without your permission and force his tongue upon your own male organ. That would be a truly hideous form of alleged fellatio rape attempt that would be very offensive to you, and an immediate basis for your excluding that person from your own life, with yourself also having the option, if he physically overpowers you and does in fact subject you to the sex crime of unwanted-fellatio rape despite the repeated protests you verbalize to him, of your filing criminal-law charges against him in a civil manner on your part, with help from a local law-enforcement agency. 

--Does he ever state or indicate to you that he is spying on or stalking or forcing unwanted communications upon someone who already permanently rejected himself?

If you yourself very definitely DO NOT spy on or stalk or send e-mail letters or letters to anyone after he rejects yourself, the scenario of your having any involvement with a rapacious stalker type in your own personal life could be very emotionally harmful to you and morally as well as legally compromising to you, and very unpleasant.

--Does he directly state or indicate that he has a felony-conviction record?

If you yourself do NOT have a felony-conviction record, you have a legal right in your personal life or off-duty life or roommate life to choose AGAINST associating with anyone who does have a felony-conviction record.

---Does he directly state to you that he supports "physical torture" of or the deliberate personal injury of, or the deliberate infliction of a a medical disability on, or the deliberate attempt to harm the creatively vital medical longevity or lifespan of, at least one cited person whom he himself has labeled as a "queer-basher" or "homophobe"?

If you yourself strongly support the Freedom of Speech and Freedom of Religion legal rights and other legal rights of any individual to lawfully criticize and have a critical vantage point toward observable conduct by anyone, regardless of whether the person whose conduct being criticized is citedly "homosexual" or "gay" or "bisexual" or "transgender" or "transphiliacal", etc., keep in mind that if you agree to become a "friend" to someone who pursues viciously vindictive vigilante-style punitive actions against law-abiding and very honorable critics of the so-called "gay subculture", this puts you at increased risk of yourself being victimized by personal injury crimes in your own life if you ever lawfully criticize that same "subculture".

--Does he ever directly state to you that he believes that any cited "homopobe" and "queer basher" should be subjected against his wishes to a thought-control project that features punitive actions against him if he ever has thoughts or makes comments critical of the so-called gay subculture?

If you yourself are vehemently opposed to any and all thought-control projects, and you revere the legal and Constitutionally-protected right of any individual to have thoughts per se and an internal thought process that is frequently critical of the so-called "gay subculture", keep in mind that the Texas Legislature and U.S. Congress CANNOT require you to associate during your off-duty hours, or in your roommate life or housing life, with anyone who supports thought-control projects of any type.

---Does he directly state or indicate to you that he himself is addicted to drinking alcohol? 

If you yourself are NOT an alcoholic, you might find it very, very frustrating and stressful to associate with someone who is.

--Does he directly state or indicate to you that he frequently participates in "binge drinking" consumption of drinking alcohol?

If you yourself do NOT participate in any binge drinking, it could cramp your own style as a human being to have a "friend" who frequently participates in reckless and injurious and self-destructive activity of that type.

--Does he state or indicate to you that he leads a lifestyle in which he consumes any quantity of marijuana or any other illicit drug? 

If you yourself do NOT consume any marijuana or any other illicit drug, you will find his own conduct to be very alienating to you and morally compromising to you.

--Does he ever state or indicate to you that he himself is "friends with" or "has a relationship with" an illicit drug dealer?

If you yourself are appalled by illicit drug dealers and would like to see all of them face criminal charges as soon as possible in a court of law, you have a legal right that not even the Texas Legislature in Austin can deny you, to yourself REFUSE to associate in your personal life or roommate life with an individual who admits to having a relationship with an illicit-drug dealer.

--Does he talk with you and others about "sex", his "sex life", his "favorite pick-up places" for finding sex partners, on a frequent basis?

If you yourself only rarely talk about sex, you will find his own conduct toward yourself and others to be offensive and alienating.

--Does he almost never verbalize the word "love" in any of his comments to you, with himself suggesting that he has deliberately chosen to pursue a sex life and life in which love plays no role?

If you yourself believe in love, regardless of whether that be platonic love or romantic love, you will find that associating with someone who is anti-love in orientation, as many "gay" persons are, will be very emotionally harmful to you during your off-duty hours when you have the greatest control over whom you do or DO NOT agree to associate with.


---Does he directly state or indicate to you that he is "HIV-positive" and continues to have a "sex life"? 

If you yourself are HIV-negative, it is very reasonable of you to be alarmed by the lack of conscience exhibited by any HIV-positive person who indicates to you that he himself is having sex with one or more other persons during a period in which he himself is HIV-positive. You might understandably believe that anyone who is HIV-positive should diligently pursue a completely celibate life in which he is also very, very careful not to infect anyone else with the HIV-virus through any casual contact he ever has with them in everyday life, such as at the workplace.

--Does he state to you that even though he himself pursues a sexually promiscuous lifestyle featuring sex with a wide variety of complete strangers, he refuses to get tested for the HIV virus, "since I (the self-identified 'gay' person) don't want to know about it if I'm HIV-positive", as he may candidly comment to you during a conversation with you.

If he makes comments of that type to you, this indicates that he may not be conscientious enough or moral enough to become a mutual-consent personal friend of yours.

---Does he ever directly state to you or indicate to you that when he has obtained a medical report for himself indicating whether he is HIV-negative or STD-free, he chose against citing his own full legal name and his own actual birthdate when he identified himself for that exam to a medical-services provider.

If you yourself have consistently insisted on using your own full legal name and your own birthdate or actual social security number, if applicable, when you get tested for the HIV virus or for any other sexually-transmitted disease, it is very fair for you to conclude that the cited "gay person" is NOT conscientious enough or honest enough or straightforward enough to ever become a mutual-consent personal friend for yourself.

---Does he ever directly state to you that he does NOT regard it as a crime when a person who is HIV-negative infects an HIV-negative human being with the AIDS virus?

If you yourself strongly believe that individuals who infect others with the HIV virus should be charged with a crime in a court of law in Texas, keep in mind that neither the Texas Legislature nor the Austin City Council nor the Travis County Commissioners Court nor any relative or associate of yours, can require you to associate in your off-duty time with ANYONE who fails to fully acknowledge the criminal nature of HIV-virus infection cases.

--Does he ever state to you that he has refused to honor that request when a prospective dating partner or prospective sex partner or prospective roommate specifically asked him to provide the latter individual with a copy of an up-to-date medical report indicating that he himself is HIV-negative?

If you yourself have a strong tradition over a multi-decade period of honoring any such requests from others, and of even volunteering up-to-date and reliable medical reports to work supervisors, for that matter, that cite your full legal name and your date of birth and the medical finding that you yourself are HIV-negative, keep in mind that not even the Texas Legislature can force you or order you in your off-duty hours to associate with the individual fitting the above shockingly hostile and non-cooperative description.

---Does he directly state or indicate to you that he pursues "anonymous sex with complete strangers" on a frequent basis in his own so-called "romantic life"?

 If you yourself do NOT pursue anonymous sex with anyone, you would find it very alienating to be exposed on a frequent basis to evidence that your new "gay friend" does, in fact, frequently pursue anonymous sex with complete strangers.

---Does he directly state to you that he himself frequently pursues anonymous sex with compete strangers inside men's restrooms of public buildings?

If you yourself have NEVER participated in any sex act inside any public restroom, it is very understandable if you feel alienated by his reckless and injurious lifestyle in that way.

Keep in mind that you yourself do enjoy the legal right under the Freedom of Association clause of the Bill of Rights of the U.S. Constitution, to NOT yourself associate with himself in your own personal life---your off-duty time being the time in which you have the greatest control over whom you associate with (or, alternatively, whom you DO NOT associate with).

--Does he ever state to you that he participates in the beating or whipping or deliberate physical abuse of a "sex partner" --- or of himself --- in a context he directly agreed to, in his own life?

If you yourself are appalled by the so-called "S&M Scene" or "Sadomasochism Scene" in Texas and elsewhere in this nation, keep in mind that NO ONE can legally require you to associate in your personal life or roommate life with an individual who made that type of statement to you.