Divorce Lawsuits & Gay Divorces from Same-Sex Marriages, Gay Marriages, & Lesbian Marriages, To Reveal Gay Spouse Abuse, Gay marriage scandals

The trend toward legalization of same-sex marriages will, among other things, provide major new legal precedents relating to the crucial human right and essential legal right of a partner from a marriage of that type, to himself (or herself) appear in a public divorce court and publicly as well as lawfully and in a civil manner request and formally obtain a legal divorce from his (or her) spouse.

Those divorce-court proceedings by same-sex marriage partners --- a significant percentage of those divorce-court trials to each involve many weeks or months of courtroom testimony for the plaintiff and for the respondent or defendant --- will inevitably bring with them horrifying and very tangible, factual legal evidence about the living conditions for each partner in those same-sex marriages, including:

---a divorce-court allegation by a "same-sex marriage" estranged spouse seeking $10 million from his defendant spouse for emotional duress, privacy-rights violations, alleged marital rape, and cited personal injuries to the plaintiff, that "a week after we got married, my same-sex-marriage partner confessed to me that he had a secret fetish for necrophilia, and that he wanted to hone his skills at necrophilia by sodomizing me every night while I was sound asleep in the bed where we slept together.

"He told me that since I'm a sound sleeper and could sleep through anything, his having sex with me every night during my sleep on our newlywed bed should not present any problem for me. He added that in a worst-case scenario for myself, I might feel sore in my anus when I woke up the next morning. Then a week later, my same-sex marriage partner informed me that he had decided to exclusively limit our conjugal-relations sex life to sex during my sleep, with no other sexual contact between us, he said. The defendant stated that he found me to be more enjoyably passive and more to his liking when I was sound asleep and completely still at the time. He stated to me that an ideal spouse is someone who offers him complete passivity and complete docility at all times. He also stated that because he found me to be much better in bed when I was completely unconscious, he as my self-described dominant partner had chosen to permanently discontinue any and all sex with me -- or any other physical contact with me, for that matter -- during any of my waking or conscious hours, he said.

"During the daytime and evening hours, the defendant would sometimes state to me that he wanted to have sex with me at that time. He would then immediately order me to take a sleeping pill in his presence, and to myself immediately lie in bed in our bedroom. When I woke up hours later, and often this was at about 11 p.m. when I normally would have gone to sleep, I often found semen in my anus and semen in my mouth. Sometimes the defendant would greet me at that time by stating to me, 'You were terrific in bed today! Too bad you missed all the fun I had with you!"

---a courtroom allegation by the plaintiff that "the defendant was repressive and grotesquely censorious and toxically heterophobic---he was a vicious straight-basher, and I disliked him intensely for that and other reasons. During the first week of our same-sex marriage, the defendant prohibited me from listening to any musical recordings inside our condo unit that were being sung by masculine heterosexual men or by heterosexual women. In fact, the defendant grabbed all of my 100 CDs and DVDs featuring masculine heterosexual male singers and heterosexual female singers, and he threw every one of them into the trash can with what he later admitted to have been 'gay capriciousness and gay rage on my part,' as he confessed to me a day later.

"At the time of his censorious conduct in that way, the defendant stated to me with viciousness in his voice: 'All of the music that I would ever permit you to listen to inside our condo unit must be music sung by effeminate male gays, lesbians, transsexuals, and bisexuals." Your Honor, I suffered severe emotional duress and increased blood pressure from being subjected to high-pitched, shrill, very unattractive gay and transsexual voices from the musical recordings that the defendant inflicted on me. I also found the defendant-approved lesbian singers' political and religious and philosophical messages to be repressively anti-masculine-male, repressively heterophobic, and very lacking in insight. I wanted a divorce from the defendant within 24 hours after we got married, and this was one of the hundreds of reasons why I am very comprehensively incompatible with the defendant. Your Honor, I am seeking today in this courtroom $1 million from the defendant in damages for the severe emotional duress and distress that he inflicted on me during the very traumatic and very injurious three-week period in which we lived together before I moved out on him and filed for this divorce."

---a courtroom statement by the plaintiff during a "same-sex-marriage" divorce proceeding that "I never agreed to be married to the defendant. Your Honor, I allege that the defendant secretly bribed a gay judge friend of his into granting him a marriage license citing myself as the spouse---all without my being given any say in the matter. In fact, your Honor, the signature of authorization for the so-called 'marriage' that the defendant claims he obtained from myself was fraudulent. I myself never attended any wedding ceremony, any wedding reception, or any honeymoon of any type that involved the defendant and myself in any way. Your Honor, I allege that the defendant did, in fact, kidnap me and hold me hostage inside his home. I further allege that the defendant repeatedly admitted to me inside his home where he held me hostage until I recently escaped, that he regarded me as being 'a rare breed of subhuman household pet that won't put me at risk of anyone accusing me of bestiality if I sodomize my pet in front of a VIP gay civic leader who is visiting me inside my home at the time.'"

--the transcript of a shocking statement in divorce court proceeding that "my spouse confessed to me during the third week of our same-sex marriage that he was an incurable sexaholic who had failed all three of the sexual-addiction treatment programs he had undergone in prior years. He also told me that he was so addicted to having indiscriminate sex with a wide variety of anonymous sex partners, that an ongoing relationship he was having with a nearby farm animal had made him unfaithful to me as of our second week of marriage.

"The defendant stated to me that in the first two weeks of our marriage, he had had carnal relations with a lamb on five separate occasions. The defendant also stated to me that during periods when I myself was away from our home, he would visit a nearby gay male farmer friend of his and then pay his gay farmer friend $10 in order to then sodomize a lamb owned by that gay farmer. The defendant also confessed to me that his rear-entry extramarital sexual experiences with the farm-animal lamb were far more enjoyable to him than having sex with myself ever was."

--a court-room confession by an estranged "spouse" from a "same-sex marriage" that he himself had long been physically and aesthetically and morally repulsed by, and repulsed by the personality and locution and political and religious ideology of, the individual who had pressured him into getting married to that individual. "I had to pretend I was looking at someone else in order to myself fake a smile at that unsightly and very unpleasant individual who claimed to be my spouse," the estranged spouse might well testify in divorce court.

"I was amazed that he never revealed any awareness of my being physically repulsed by himself. His vanity and solipsism were so pervasive that that he lacked the human capacity to comprehend any critical outlook toward himself by an honest human being such as myself."

---a courtroom allegation by the plaintiff from a same-sex marriage divorce-court proceeding that "the defendant repeatedly physically beat me and physically whipped me and verbally assaulted me using profane language in retaliation against myself after I very honestly and in a civil manner on my part stated my honest opinion to my same-sex marriage spouse that I myself am physically repulsed by male adult effeminacy, by the stench of the perfumes worn by many effeminate male adult persons, by cross-gender-dressing on the part of male adult persons, by sadomasochistic practices, by any and all facial hair on male adult persons, by baldness atop the head in male adult persons, by the vast majority of all adult male persons older than myself in age, by adult male persons who are prematurely aged, by alcoholics, by tattoos on human bodies, by nostril rings, by tongue rings, by ear rings on male adult persons, by jewelry on male adult persons, by male adult persons who smoke or consume any tobacco products, by male adult persons who repeatedly consume illicit drugs, and by habitual profane speech on the part of the defendant and other persons."

---a formal divorce-court statement by the plaintiff form a same-sex marriage that "my allergy specialist doctor determined for me within the first month of my marriage to the defendant that I was, in fact, allergic to him from a documented medical standpoint. He was like a sly and feline cat, and I myself was very canine, and cats and dogs do not mix. I sneezed and wheezed and coughed repeatedly and incessantly in the defendant's presence, and my skin broke out in hives from exposure to my same-sex partner. My allergy specialist physician asked me to bring samples of my same-sex partner's hair follicles and perspiration, including a workout suit that my partner had worn during strenuous exercise, and photographs of my partner. My allergy specialist then determined through diligent medical testing of myself at his medical laboratory that I am, in fact, physically and medically allergic to my spouse. Even after my spouse agreed to change his brand of soap and his underarm deodorant, the results from medical testing by that allergy specialist were exactly the same. Your Honor, I am asking for $500,000 in damages relating to the emotional duress I was subjected to from marrying someone who had specifically told me he refused to meet with my allergy specialist in my presence before the wedding took place. Had the defendant agreed to be tested by my allergy specialist in my presence before the scheduled date for our wedding, that marriage ceremony would never have occurred. This would have spared me from lots of needless suffering that I endured from being married to the defendant."

---a formal courtroom allegation by a plaintiff in a same-sex marriage divorce-court proceeding that "the defendant verbally harassed me with obscene speech, a violation of the state penal code of Texas and a criminal offense on his part, every day of our multi-month marriage. Your Honor, I am seeking $5 million from the defendant for emotional duress, character assassination, and violations of the state penal code he victimized me with through his incessant verbal abuse of me in which he chose to verbalize profane speech directed at myself."

--courtroom confessions and allegations in divorce-court legal proceedings about an addiction by one or both "spouses" in that "same-sex marriage" to their paying money to frequent gay bathhouses or other commercial sex parlors and engage in anonymous sex there with a wide variety of anonymous sex partners;

--divorce-court confessions and allegations about participation in sex orgies involving indiscriminate sex with a wide variety of sex partners by one or both partners in any given same-sex "marriage", with the cited lubricant of Mazola oil generally being poured all over the floor of their condo unit by the defendant as he prepared to host an orgy party;

--divorce-court confessions and allegations by one spouse or both that during their years of "same-sex marriage" together, one or both of those spouses repeatedly paid a "prostitute" money in exchange for that sexual prostitute having sex with either himself or his self-described "marriage partner";

---a divorce-court statement by the plaintiff from a same-sex marriage that "he had told me repeatedly over our multi-week period of dating each other that if I agreed to marry him, I would definitely be the sole and exclusive beneficiary of his entire estate. That was the only reason for marrying him that he ever offered me during the entire three-week period in which we dated as new acquaintances who'd never met before. Then after those three weeks ended and we got married and were living together, the defendant suddenly informed me that he had changed his mind. He had decided to leave all of his estate to his favorite art museum, which he said is named after his own all-time favorite artist, Andy Warhol----a famous drug addict, if you don't mind my saying so, Your Honor.

"Your Honor, I am alleging today through this $1 million lawsuit I've filed against the defendant in this court of law that it was very mentally cruel and fraudulent advertising on the part of the defendant to have repeatedly promised me his entire multi-million-dollar estate just before we got married, only to himself then pull that rug under my feet very abruptly.

"The defendant knew perfectly well that before I agreed to marry him he had repeatedly assured me that his doctors had told him that because of his own cited terminal illness, he'd only have six more months to live, meaning that I could enjoy being a happy widower later that same year. That repeated promise from the defendant was the only thing that made his marriage offer at all palatable to me. I could barely eat or drink while sitting across from him, since his gaunt and prune-faced presence always reminded me of a corpse on display at a wake inside a Catholic church. And the defendant did state to me several times that 'I can see you don't find me appetizing, but hopefully the green you'll soon be into, with my help, will whet your appetite just six months from now. I hope this six-month waiting period before you get your money will strike you as being only a minor inconvenience.'

"Your Honor, I also allege in this court of law that the defendant is guilty of fraudulent advertising, and that he owes me $1 million on that basis as well as part of our court-ordered divorce settlement."

---a divorce-court allegation by one estranged "spouse" from a "same-sex marriage" that the individual being sued in that divorce court proceeding "was very intolerant of and contemptuous my own lawful and platonically polite form of heterophilia, in which I felt comfortable with, felt calmer around, and agreed to myself associate with a significantly higher percentage of all masculine heterosexual adult men and of all heterosexual adult women, than of all homosexual adult male persons, gay adult male persons, effeminate male adult persons, transvestite persons, transsexual persons, or lesbian adult female persons. The defendant refused to take any phone messages for me that came from anyone whom he labeled as being either 'straight' or a 'hetero.'

"That repressive censoriousness toward myself by the defendant severely undermined my own quality of life and level of happiness as a human being. Also, the defendant habitually deleted from the inbox of my own personal Internet mail on my personal computer any friendly E-mail communication to me that ever was sent to me by a heterosexual adult man or a heterosexual adult woman. 'Breeders are a bane to my existence!' the defendant would shout with rage in his voice. I never once heard the defendant say anything nice in my presence about anyone whom he labeled as being a breeder, straight, or a hetero."

---a divorce-court statement from a plaintiff from a same-sex marriage that "the defendant repeatedly ridiculed me for being very generous and friendly and kind to youths under age 17. 'The only relationships that count are the ones involving genital contact and orgasms,' the defendant would declare. 'You are foolish when you spend so much of your leisuretime being nice and polite to youths. It makes no sense for you to spend any time with under-age youths, since they're irrelevant. The only persons who count, as any gay activist will tell you, are the ones you can have sex with inside a gay bathhouse and not get arrested for it. Everyone else you encounter is a nobody, from a true gay vantage point. Children are interesting only when they reach legal age. Until they have blown out 17 or 18 candles on their birthday cake, children are a subpopulation I completely ignore. They don't exist, in my eyes, until it's legal to get lewd with them, if you get my drift.

"It infuriates me," the defendant continued, "that you continue to show a very unnatural avuncular or brotherly or paternal, sometimes maternal, devotion to male youths, and to some female youths as well! It's as if you're trying to turn our same-sex marriage into a disgustingly wholesome and G-rated Walt Disney movie! The whole point of our same-sex marriage was to produce a scandalous year-round porno movie that could still, but just barely, keep each of us out of jail.

"That, to me," the defendant stated, "is the whole point of a gay lifestyle: Be outrageous, immoral, and offensive at all times, but somehow avoid going to jail, since you know how to be technically---but just barely----in compliance with the law."

---a divorce-court statement from the plaintiff from a "same-sex marriage" that "the defendant joined a gay terrorist group without my prior knowledge or prior consent n a week after we got married. He and his gay terrorist group members then developed a secret 'enemies list' of each and every noteworthy individual residing in their metro area whom that gay terrorist group had classified as being either 'homophobic' or 'anti-gay.' That gay terrorist group would then target each and every person listed on that 'enemies list' for constant and year-round verbal abuse, including anonymous death threats being hurled at those cited 'enemies of gays' on a year-round basis, and other acts of vicious reprisal on a year-round basis."

---a divorce-court statement from the plaintiff from a same-sex marriage that "the defendant assured me when he married me in our same-sex marriage that he would not try to force a sex-change operation on me. After he married me, though, he repeatedly accused me of 'not being passive enough or effeminate enough,' and the defendant would beat me with a whip and chain 'to make you more passive,' as he would put it. The defendant also repeatedly made verbal threats to me that he would somehow get power of attorney authority over me, and would then force a sex-change operation on me by court order.

"'Once your penis is removed by court-ordered surgery, that should make you passive and very submissive, and more receptive to me in our condo unit when I'm in the mood for S&M,' the defendant would then state to me with a sneer in his facial expression."

---a divorce-court allegation by the plaintiff that "the defendant at our same-sex wedding ceremony inserted a huge and gaudy ring on my index finger that featured a two-word message which glows in the dark. That two-word message was 'F-ck me!'. I turned beet red at the wedding ceremony, Your Honor!"

---a divorce-court statement by the plaintiff from a same-sex marriage that "the defendant in one of his many dramatic whims suddenly announced that he would name one room of his mansion as 'Jay's S&M Room.' The defendant, Jay, would resolve any verbal argument I had with him by dragging me kicking and screaming into his S&M Room. There, he would beat me with a whip until I fell unconscious. At that point, he would sodomize me while I was still unconscious. The defendant repeatedly stated to me that "my S&M Room was created by me to domesticate you, since you're a wild gay animal that needs to be tamed. Until you cease to ever disagree with me about anything, and until you instead nod your head at me in complete and passive agreement with me whenever I talk to you, you will always be forcefully dragged by me to my S&M room for additional torture.'"

---a divorce-court allegation by the plaintiff from a failed same-sex marriage that that "five days after he met me, the defendant asked me to marry him ASAP. He proposed marriage to me despite his having never chosen to ever once state to me his own religious affiliation, his own political ideology, his own racial or ethnic identity, his actual legal age, his full legal name, his nation of birth, his complete medical history, his expected lifespan or longevity, his favorite pastimes or hobbies, or which personality traits he sought in a spouse.

"Your Honor, I can also state for the record that the defendant never once posed to me any question on any occasion before we got married. He presented everything, including the marriage proposal, in command form, since he took pride in being the strong silent type who is very domineering and intimidating. He repeatedly stated to me that he admired and emulated Arnold Schwarzenegger, and the defendant repeatedly boasted to me that he, too, is good with a gun. In fact, the defendant pistol-whipped me on my face during our Honeymoon night inside our hotel room. He did that while shouting at me that my oral-sex-sodomy performance with him, in which he alleged that I had left tooth marks on his penis, had been inexcusably unsatisfactory on my part.

"Your Honor, I finally found the courage to reject him two days after our wedding ceremony, and I feared for my life when I did finally speak up. He glared at me with very intense hatred, and then the defendant angrily stated to me that I was required to live up to the terms of our five-year marriage contract that he had gotten me to sign the day before our wedding. He then stated that he planned to sue me in a court of law for failing to comply in full with the five-year marriage contract agreement that I had signed."



---a divorce-court confession by an estranged spouse from a failed "same-sex marriage" that "at no time during our courtship period leading to our marriage was either of us sober for more than five consecutive hours. We were both either high on drugs or alcohol, or experiencing an awful hangover, throughout the entire courtship period.

"Your Honor, I am now humbly asking you today to please rule that our marriage contract is null and void. Each of us was drunk as a skunk when we signed that legal contract, and both of us at our wedding ceremony were so high on alcohol and drugs that we could have been on top of Mount Everest at the time. Your Honor, I maintain that the vows we exchanged at our wedding were fraudulent and illegitimate, since neither of us could have passed a sobriety test at the time."

---a divorce-court statement by the estranged "spouse" from a failed same-sex marriage attempt that "after we got married, I suddenly noticed a hidden camera in our bedroom and near our living room sofa. It turned out that my 'spouse' was a paid professional actor who had signed a special 'Reality Television' professional-services contract with ABC Television Network, aimed at broadcasting to the entire world a sensational series of 'juicy vignettes' from a same-sex marriage.

"Your Honor, I ask you today to please rule that the defendant's flagrant defiance of my own privacy rights, along with what I now maintain was his actual career identity as a paid professional actor who faked everything we ever did together in our marriage---and I now suspect, your Honor, that even the defendant's orgasms during our marriage were completely fraudulent and slyly faked on his part----render our entire marriage contract null and void."

--a divorce-court statement by one estranged "spouse" from that "same-sex marriage" that his "spouse" had illegally obtained power of attorney authority over himself in their marriage, and had illegally committed him to a psychiatric institution for a multi-year period "because the defendant alleged that I exhibited a greater emotional and intellectual and political and religious and personal and aesthetic-based affinity toward, and greater overall human identification with, a significantly higher percentage of all heterosexual adult men and all heterosexual adult women than of all gay male adult persons, all homosexual adult male persons, all effeminate male adult persons, or all lesbian adult persons.

"And during that multi-year period of psychiatric confinement for me, the defendant added 500 new sex partners to his black book, based on what he himself stated and showed me in his black book after I was released from psychiatric commitment."

---a shocking courtroom statement by an estranged spouse from a same-sex marriage in divorce court that "the defendant assured me that in our mutual-consent marriage we would both get to vote on any and all major decisions relating to our household. Not until after we got married did he then explain that he alone held the authority to resolve any of our tie votes, since he owned the condominium unit in which we were living.

"What I particularly dreaded was the tie vote we had that led to a tie-breaker vote from himself, making every Saturday inside our condo unit an S&M Day. On that day, I would consider myself very fortunate if he spanked me only 80 times, rather his customary 100 times on S&M Day every Saturday. He told me repeatedly that spanking me gave him more pleasure than anything else he ever did with me."

---a shocking courtroom statement by an estranged spouse from a same-sex marriage in a divorce-court proceeding that "the defendant incorrectly claimed to me on a repeated basis that he held legal authority over me, when in fact he had no such legal authority. Also, he repeatedly forbade me from ever myself associating with any masculine men. I was told by the defendant that only the effeminate or very effeminate male adult persons or female or transsexual persons were permitted by the defendant to associate with myself in any aspect of my life.

"The restrictions and prohibitions on my own lifestyle by the defendant were so arbitrary, severe, and repressive that several of my masculine men friends whom I'd known before I got married, decided to fake effeminacy on their part whenever they were observed in public with myself. This was the only strategy they knew for protecting me against the risk of my being beaten and whipped and spanked 100 times by the defendant after I returned home from a social outing with a masculine male adult friend of mine."

--a shocking courtroom statement in divorce court by the estranged spouse from a same-sex marriage that "the defendant was so intrigued by snuff movies that he would order me to pose as 'the victim' in a home movie he was making inside our condo unit that was designed to replicate a snuff movie while keeping the victim still alive, he repeatedly assured me. During one of those snuff movie-inspired home movies he produced with me, he cut me real badly with a kitchen knife.

"He then explained that he had forgotten that he was doing a 'just pretend' version of a snuff movie with me, and that he was willing to pay for my emergency visit to the hospital on that. Fortunately, I only needed 50 stitches for that injury."

---a courtroom statement by one estranged spouse from a same-sex marriage in a divorce-court proceeding that "the defendant told me during our Honeymoon just after we got married that his leading goal in life was to own a Black Book that contained the names of 5,000 sex partners of his, along with his evaluation of how each of them rated during the sex act.

"He also told me during our Honeymoon, for the first time ever, that I was his 500th sex partner, and he had chosen to marry me because he liked the number 500 quite a bit. However, he still felt very determined to reach 5,000 total sex partners over the course of his lifetime, and he planned to divorce me at some future point in order to marry his 1,000th sex partner, he admitted during our Honeymoon. 'I love the idea of marrying my 1,000th sex partner,' he stated to me at one point."

---a courtroom confession by the plaintiff from a failed same-sex marriage attempt in a divorce-court legal proceeding that "the defendant told everyone who visited our condo unit during our years as a married couple that his own favorite hobby was collecting dildos. He would always tell each guest inside our condo unit that he savored the phallic symbolism of dildos. He would always add that he wanted his dildo collection to be 'very unique', as he put it, so he had a tradition of buying one new dildo within a week after he had added one more sex partner to his 'gay black book,' as he called it.

"The defendant would name each new dildo he'd purchased after his most recent extra-marital sex partner. When he couldn't remember that sex partner's first name----which happened frequently, such as when he had just had anonymous sex inside a public men's restroom at Penn Central Station in New York City----he would simply invent a fictional name for that sex partner out of thin air. A bit like the way weathermen name hurricanes, except that all of his personal hurricanes, so to speak---those new dildos he purchased with glee--- bore the first names of men."

---a divorce-court allegation by the complainant, an estranged spouse from a same-sex marriage that had failed, that "the defendant blackmailed me into marrying him. He did that by repeatedly warning me that if I refused to marry him, he would contact the local police department and the local prosecuting attorney's office, the county attorney's office, the FBI, and the Internal Revenue Service. He'd then immediately turn over to each of those government agencies all the criminal-law legal evidence on me that he had secretly obtained, including through secret videotapings of me he had paid for surreptitiously.

"He warned me that that criminal-law evidence about me would prove that I myself was addicted to illicit drugs, I myself was a drug dealer, I myself had cheated on my income taxes, and that I myself had committed at least five felony sex crimes in the most recent 12-month period, he repeatedly emphasized to me. I agreed to marry him only because I feared going to prison from being convicted of those crimes. I feared going to prison because I knew I would have gotten raped in prison. Our wedding and marriage was a complete farce, since I would NEVER have agreed to marry that sadistic and repulsive older man had it not been for all the "dirt" he had on me that he used against me in that very ruthless, nasty, and heavy-handed manner!"

---a divorce-court allegation by the plaintiff from a same-sex marriage that "the defendant ordered me to go on a liquid diet during our same-sex marriage. The defendant stated to me that if I was on a liquid diet in which I abstained from consuming any solid foods, this would spare my spouse from ever encountering any manure when he sodomized me during anal intercourse. He stated to me that it was a turn-off to him to encounter manure in my anus during anal intercourse. After I complied in full with his liquid-diet demand, I lost 50 pounds over a four-week period and was so thin that the defendant stated he found me unappetizing. He then ordered me to put on 40 pounds ASAP. He stated it was a 'turn-off' for him to have anal intercourse with a 'human skeleton,' the defendant stated."

---a courtroom allegation by the complainant estranged spouse from a same-sex marriage, this in a divorce-court proceeding, that "the defendant admitted to me during our Honeymoon five hours after we got married in a civil ceremony that 'the only reason why I married you is that it will help me in my business career. It will lend respectability to me as a businessman, since you yourself have a reputation for being honest and civil and hygienic and HIV-negative and law-abiding, and you also have a reputation for not being a drug addict or alcoholic, which is quite rare these days.
"'Everyone will assume we're monogamous together, but I need to let you know from the start that I'll be playing musical beds on all of my out-of-town business trips. The only thing I can promise you about my many out-of-town business trips to San Francisco, Los Angeles, Minneapolis, Chicago, and New York is that I will always use a condom. I hope you find that reassuring. I can also promise you that during my in-town business trips within the metro area where we live, I will make every effort to not embarrass you. That's as far as I can promise you at this time. I'll be discreet about whatever I do away from our condo unit, if that's any consolation to you.'"

---a courtroom statement by a same-sex marriage partner complainant in a divorce-court proceeding that 'the defendant was so sex-crazed that during our wedding ceremony, he insisted on reading a poem he had written about his own deep love for condoms and the orgasms that condoms have enabled him to achieve.

"His poem was entitled 'Condom Copulation Joy.' I found it embarrassing to hear him recite his poem aloud at our wedding ceremony, particularly since he made no statement about loving me myself, as a human being, at our wedding ceremony."

---a courtroom allegation by a same-sex marriage partner complainant in a divorce-court proceeding that "the defendant habitually attended weekly all-male strip-poker games hosted by a gay friend of his, with the identity of the players in that parlor game varying from one week to the next. Not only did the defendant in calendar year 2008 lose $10,000 of my own money during those strip-poker games, but he admitted to me later that he enjoyed losing those games, since it gave him a chance to show off his 'beautiful bod', as he put it.

"He also admitted to me that whenever he had stripped down to his underwear at those games, the other gay male strip-poker players found him irresistible. 'I don't blame them, either,' he used to tell me each week. 'I have a terrific bod, and I would get turned on myself when another player would strip down to his underwear.' It turned out that the defendant added five new cases of gonorrhoea, syphilis, and chlamydia and herpes last year to his medical history. His excuse each time was that it would have been 'unnatural' for gay men to play strip-poker together without an orgy resulting from it all, he used to tell me."

---court-room confessions by one spouse from a "same-sex marriage" that he had ordered his "spouse" to engage in the crime of sexual prostitution with one or more male persons as the illicit customers, with the resulting payments of money from those illicit customers then being used to pay that household's monthly bills.

---"courtroom testimony by the estranged spouse from a "same-sex marriage" that "the defendant literally held me down and forced me to endure vulgar and degrading tatoos he had emblazoned all over my body, including on each of my arms, that each stated, 'I'm a Sex Slave of My Spouse!", 'I'm Property of My Spouse', 'I'm a Sex Toy of My Spouse,' and 'S&M Turns Me On! I'm Gay!' I felt like a head of cattle being branded by a ruthless rancher who owned me, and who planned to have me slaughtered at some future point!"

--confessions by one spouse in that "same-sex marriage" that he had had carnal or sexual relations with five other male persons during his "honeymoon trip" with his new spouse. And that honeymoon trip had begun a few hours after those two male adult persons had gotten married to each other at a wedding ceremony.

--divorce-court testimony by one "spouse" from that "same-sex marriage" that "my spouse spent all of our money on gay bathhouses, illicit services from sexual prostitutes, sex toys, X-rated movie DVDs and CDs, and X-rated magazines that he purchased on a frequent basis, which left us without any money left to pay for our household's rent and food and other living expenses";

---divorce-court testimony by one "spouse" from that "same-sex marriage" that he or she had observed direct evidence that his "spouse" in that "marriage" had an illicit involvement with organized crime, such as through illicit ties to an illicit "nightclub" or an illicit gambling casino or an illicit "resort," or otherwise violated the law and committed a felony crime, such as through shockingly illegal and injurious pederastic sexual involvements with minors or through deliberate cheating on their own income taxes.

---divorce-court testimony by one "spouse" from that "same-sex marriage" that the other "spouse" had allegedly pursued a law-breaking career as an illicit-drug dealer over a multi-month or multi-year period that occurred during their "same-sex marriage";

---divorce-court testimony by one "spouse" from that "same-sex marriage" that the other "spouse" had "pressured me into trying the illicit drug cocaine, and then I (the plaintiff) got addicted to cocaine. I am suing my spouse in this divorce court for $5 million in damages relating to my personal addiction to cocaine that he inflicted on me during our marriage."

--divorce-court testimony by one partner in that same-sex marriage that his "spouse" allegedly had either deliberately or otherwise infected him with the often-fatal HIV virus, or with some other significantly injurious sexually transmitted disease such as herpes, chlamydiae, syphilis, or gonorrhea.

--courtroom confessions by one partner or the other in any given "same-sex marriage" that "I failed to inform my same-sex partner before marrying him that I was fully aware of myself being HIV-positive for a multi-month period or multi-year period before we got married";

--divorce-court testimony about addiction to alcohol or tobacco products or illicit drugs or licit drugs, or gambling involving the expenditure of money, by one or both partners in that cited "same-sex marriage";

--sadomasochism and accompanying violence involving the beating and whipping and first-fornication and rape of one or both partners in those same-sex marriages;

--testimony by an estranged spouse from that "same-sex marriage" that "my partner repeatedly insisted on dressing up as a Nazi prison guard inside our home. He would then strike me with an electric prod, and he'd warn me that if I didn't do whatever he ordered me to do, I would be forcefully taken to Auschwitz."

--testimony by one estranged spouse that "my same-sex marriage partner repeatedly forced me to eat my own excrement inside our home. It was one of the most disgusting experiences of my entire life! He repeatedly declared that it was his way of proving that he ruled over me at all times. He was the slave master, and I was the slave, he repeatedly stated to me."

---testimony by one estranged spouse from a same-sex marriage that "the defendant subjected me to non-stop verbal abuse throughout our entire marriage, hurling epithets at me such as "You're a Nazi," "a-hole," "b--thole!", "b-stard,"
"bi-ch," "Go to hell," "You're insane," "You're a freak," "I hate you," "You're a Fascist," "A pox on you," "I hope you have a fatal accident," "I hope you have a heart attack," "You're mentally ill," "you're very dislikable," "You are very financially motivated!", "You are a sycophant," "All of Austin finds you uniquely undesirable," "you are a public nuisance," "you are a national security threat," "you are too aggressive for my tastes," "you are hated by most Christians," "You are racist," "You are anti-Semitic," "you are hated by most Jewish people," "You are a liar," "you are very similar to Adolph Hitler," "You are very similar to Mussolini," "You're an idiot!", "You're like Caesar, and I'm the Brutus who seeks to stab you."

"He also repeatedly stated to me each of the following: "You are a sadomascohist," "You are a masochist," "You're too transsexual for my tastes," "You call the police too often to report evidence of illegal activities you've observed during your leisuretime, when everyone hates a snitch!", "You're mentally disabled," "you're illiterate," "you're a queer basher," "You're guilty of a deplorable hate crime against gays, lesbians, transsexuals, and effeminate male persons, that occurred through your thought processes, nocturnal dreams, personal perceptions, impressions, and public policy writings!" "You are homophobic and anti-gay!", "You're a pest!", "You are a genetic mutant," "You are a freak of nature!" "Special laws have been approved by the Texas Legislature that were specifically designed to restrict you and deny you of full and immediate access to your own cumulative lifelong financial wealth and property wealth!", "You are in a battle for survival, and I refuse to help you survive, since the sooner I get access to your estate, the better for myself!", "Special punitive laws were approved by the Texas Legislature that were specially and specifically designed to punish yourself!", "You are a public menace, according to a recent vote of the Texas Legislature!", "You are a terrorist!"; "You are a mercenary!", "You are a year-round source of distress to me!", "You are a threat to my own existence and livelihood!", "You are too self-absorbed, which proves you are narcissistic!", "You have been classified as a security risk for several government agencies!", "I do NOT acknowledge your legal and Constitutional right to exclude from your own life and life circumstances any and all of the persons whom you have already rejected from your own life and life circumstances," "You are too radical leftist for my tastes," "You are sadistic," "You are repressive," "You are too aggressive, you take too many initiatives," "You are too aggressive and too masculine to fit in among transsexual women!", "You are too bold and unpredictable for me! You are mentally unstable and deranged!", "You have no talent and job-related skills, and that's the only reason why you are always low-income in your career-related pursuits," "You are so notorious that millions of people are blacklisting you on a lifelong basis," "You are violent, even though you claim otherwise," "You are too neurotic for my tastes!", "You are too prejudiced for my tastes," "You are not liberal enough for my tastes, you are repressively conservative!", "You are eccentric, you are strange and unorthodox!", "You are deplorably solipsistic," "You ask too many questions," "You're an eyesore," "You're very undesirable," "You are a whore!", "You are a potential servant for soemone, at most!", "You are a prostitute!", "If you weren't living with me because of my kindness and decency, you would be homeless, since you are out of touch with reality!", "Many people have asked me whether you are psychotic or neurotic, that's the primary question they ask me about you!", "You are too nervous for my tastes," "You are a pariah to everyone in this entire urban area, and that's another reason why you can't earn a decent income here," "A very influential attorney despises you and is determined to make your life circumstances and life as hostile toward you and stressful and poverty-stricken for you as possible, since you wouldn't know which attorney is meddling in your life, and this prevents you from filing a legal grievance against that attorney through the State Bar of Texas and the American Bar Association!", "You're ugly," "You should be executed in an electric chair at Huntsville," "You are inferior," "You are a moron," "You are being stalked by persons you've rejected, since I want to give them every opportunity to torture you the rest of your life while invading your privacy rights every day of your life!", "You are a witch or warlock, and you would have been burned at the stake if you had lived in Salem, Massachusetts!", "You are evil," "You are very similar to Soviet dictator Josef Stalin!", "You are a blight on humanity," "You are a traitor," "You are a cancer on the body politic," "You're a retard," "Prepare to be capitally punished by electric chair, since you've been convicted in abstentia of the federal crime of treason," "I'm hoping to drive you insane, and then have you committed to a mental institution," "I hold power of attorney over you, and I have pleaded guilty on your own behalf in a court of law to numerous criminal charges against you that you're not aware of," "you have no control over your own intellectual property, since I own all of that myself," "You criticize the gay subculture too much, when you are very similar to nearly all gays," "You are an imbecile," "You're decadent," "You are very lazy!", "You're a child, so the government does not even acknowledge your asserted legal status as an adult, and the votes you cast in elections are always thrown into the trash can for that reason!" "You're immature," "You're a fool!", "I despise you!", "All of your relatives and acquaintances hate you, and they all have current access to your total cumulative lifelong financial wealth that they draw from whenever they wish, and your relatives plan to file a financial claim against your estate after you die young from a heart attack or from a fatal accident I'm hoping you will have in the very near future!," "You are a dolt," "You are an under-achiever," "You are an alcoholic," "Drop dead!", "My unhappiest day of the year is our Wedding Anniversary, since it means I'm still stuck with you after 12 more unbearable months of living with you!", "You are unhygienic," "You have a criminal-conviction record that no one has told you about, and you are about to be executed for a murder you claim you didn't know about or commit, without any right to an appeal ever being granted to you!", "You are too straight for my tastes," "You are too masculine for my tastes," "You have no legal right to yourself exclude any and all persons older than yourself in age from your own romantic life or sex life!", "You are required by me to only associate with persons whom you yourself regard as being physically repulsive or medically ill or having an unpleasant personality, since that is one means I have for punishing you and denying you the opportunity to enjoy life," "I married you primarily in order to subject you to endless reprisals and retaliations in response to law-abiding actions you have pursued that I hated very intensely!", "Shut up!", "You are being punished by me because you are fervently anti-atheist and anti-communist," "You are being punished by me because you're personally and religiously and politically incompatible with socialists and socialist groups," "You are being punished by me because you reject biological determinism very emphatically," "I do not acknowledge your own Freedom of Religion rights, or your Freedom of Speech rights, or your Freedom of Association rights, or you Freedom of Assembly rights," "You have no legal right to yourself file any criminal-law charge in a court of law against any cited gay person, any cited effeminate male adult person, any cited homosexual person, any cited bisexual person, any cited lesbian person, or any cited transsexual person, since the legal system in the United States specifically prohibits you from filing any legal complaint fitting that description! The only persons whom you are permitted to ever complain about must, by law, be heterosexual persons, since the government maintains that you have no legal right to ever oppose any action or activity by any other persons or groups affiliated with them", "You are too ambitious for your talent level and skill level, when your station in life and your socioeconomic status is that of a servant or slave, at most," "You are inferior to me because my IQ level is higher than yours," "You are hated by most intellectuals!", "You are a bore," "You are guilty of verbally harassing myself and others," "You stalk people," "You invade others' privacy rights," "You have no friends," "You are an irksome irritant," "You complain too much; you are whiny," "You are ugly," "You're obnoxious," "You're odious!", "You are psychotic," "You are going to hell," "You've been miserable for so long," "You are too honest for my tastes," "You are the Anti-Christ, most Christians agree," "You have ties to the Devil, most Christians agree," "You have asked and authorized me to verbally harass you non-stop," "You are legally prohibited by law from ever having the opportunity to yourself file a legal divorce against myself in a court of law and from ever yourself lawfully excluding me and my associates from all aspects of your own current and future life," "You're insufferable," "Die," "I'd like to strangle you," "You are guilty of public lewdness!", "You are Frankenstein!", "You are a misfit," "Your anti-Libertarian views are very offensive to most Austinites of today, since Libertarianism is very fashionable in Austin these days," "You have always been the scourge of all young people," "You are offensively prudish," "You are far too self-righteous for being so immoral and leading a despicable lifestyle!", "I myself would never protect you against anyone else on this planet choosing to verbally assault you or verbally harass you or stalk you or subject you to any unwanted communications in any context! You brought all that criticism upon yourself, by being far too outspoken and pushy for your very limited skill level and your very minimal talent level!", "You don't even have a PhD, and you claim to have stature!", "You have no power to yourself file legal charges through a law-enforcement agency, since I myself hold full power of attorney for you, and I was recently given that authority by a judge in Texas without your knowing about it," "I'm the dictator who gets to impose orders on you for the rest of your life," "You are currently confined to a mental institution, and I put you there, even though you may think you are in the free world," "You have been denied access to reliable news and information services, and it's all because I don't like your political and religious beliefs and worldview," "You are being punished because you're very incompatible with a media company or business entity or university or school or school system or religious group or political group or student organization or civic group that I myself have a relationship with or own," "You're narcissistic," "You are being punished by me because Unitarians such as myself don't acknowledge your legal right to have a fully independent and non-Christian religion of your own that is NOT affiliated with Unitarianism," "You have a need for lots of additional intellectual development, so I have enrolled you without your express permission in a lifelong 'educational-services program' featuring year-round public disparagement of yourself and year-round chastizement of yourself because of your cited incompatibility with the gay community and with the transsexual community," "You are a case study in abnormal psychology for psychiatrists and psychologists to evaluate, and that is all your entire life amounts to!", "You have no privacy rights at all, because the federal government has made the official determination that you alone among all American citizens should be deprived throughout your life of having any privacy rights at all," "You are the victim from the fictional short story 'The Lottery' about someone who gets stoned to death by fellow villagers!", "You have no privacy rights, and I seek to control your throught process, since I own you---you're mere property of mine like a slave or like a piece of cattle," "It alarms me that your nocturnal dreams indicate you feel a greater emotional and overall human affinity toward a higher percentage of all heterosexual adult men, than of all gays or all bisexual adult male persons or all effeminate male adult persons," "I'll kill you," "Our same-sex marriage is based on my expectation that you will die long before I do, and that I'll get to enjoy my life only after you have died and I can then seize your estate at that point," "You are too honest for me, and you are too honest for the people of the city where you are residing," "You are too wholesome for my tastes," "Your claims about being morally and aesthetically straight are offensive to me," "I'm involved with organized crime, and I can wipe you out in a New York minute if you ever provoke me in any way," "You are a NARC," "You are an FBI agent," "You are a spy for a foreign nation," "You are a communist!", "You are an atheist," "Many atheists despise you, since you are very opposed to atheism," "You are a paranoid-schizophrenic," "You are manic-depressive!", "You are very gullible," "You are too young for me," "You are too old for me," "You have the sexuality of a teenager, and you do not have an adult sexuality at all----you are a disgusting case of arrested psychosexual development," "You are repressively authoritarian and anti-anarchist," "Your support for proposed court-ordered capital punishment for the felony crime of murder or for the felony crime of attempted homicide, makes you anathema to myself and my friends," "The Mafia despises you, since you are fervently anti-crime," "Your alcohol-free lifestyle is very offensive to me and my friends and associates," "You are reckless and immature and whim-prone, and that is the only reason why you are heavily in financial debt!", "Your support for Prohibitionism and a complete eventual nationwide ban on the production and sale and consumption of drinking alcohol is Fascism!", "You are not an intellectual, nor are you intelligent," "You enjoy children and you smile at children, so I regard that as 'proof' that you are an alleged potential pederast," "You are too friendly toward everyone, you should be more like me," "You are too enthusiastic toward new acquaintances you meet, you should be more aloof like me," "Your speaking style is too clean and prissy, I'd respect you more if you used foul or vulgar or off-color or cynical or flippant language instead," "You are too diplomatic, you should try being blunt more often," "You are too nice for my tastes," "You give me a headache---you are annoying!", "You are too polite, and that's very offensive to me," "You are being subjected to celibacy against your wishes as punishment because you are incompatible with myself and others like me," "I don't agree that you have a legal right to any strictly-mutual-consent and law-abiding sex life involving yourself and someone whom you WOULD be receptive toward, since you exist only for the sake of your intellectual property being extracted from your brain and your thought processes being monitored and studied and appropriated by myself and others," "You don't have the legal right to divorce me," "You are a snitch," "You are not liked by the other residents of this city, state, and nation, so I hope you'll move to another city, state, or nation," "You invite persecution of yourself by others in Texas because you actively seek out controversies and conflicts!", "Many Quakers hate you and seek to censor you," "I take pride in censoring you as much as possible, since your personal views, philosophical views, religious views, and political views are so repugnant to me," "You are too law-enforcement-minded for my tastes," "You are naive," "You are being punished by myself and others because you're incompatible with the Democratic Party and the Republican Party and the Libertarian Party of the United States, when you have no legal right to exclude any political party that claims to 'own' you and claims to 'own' your own intellectual property," "I married you primarily for the sake of changing you and molding you to my own needs, since you obviously were not likable or lovable when we exchanged wedding vows," "You are rude," "You are White Trash," "You are very inconsequential," "You're a nobody," "Your only hope is if you would apply for membership in a local religious group that would help to protect your legal rights, even though you do not agree with their own religious or political ideology," "You are a criminal," "You are infamous," "You'll get poisoned and contract cancer as a result if you continue to dine out in restaurants during your leisuretime, since you are hated by so many of the local residents who work in restaurants," etc.
"The defendant also claimed that he was a former or current Gestalt therapist or theologian, and that Gestalt therapists and theologians habitually hurl verbal trash at lesser human beings such as myself. He also claimed that he was a certified attorney, and he stated to me that the State Bar of Texas state agency in Austin has permitted him to verbally abuse me as he wished, because it is considered legal in Texas for an attorney to verbally harass and publicly disparage and pervasively violate the privacy rights of and attempt to brainwash his own client, he repeatedly stated to me. However, he later admitted to me that he himself had harmful intent or criminal intent toward myself, and that he hoped to seize all of my sizable estate, including all of my millions or billions of dollars worth of property wealth, after I died young, since he was sure that no one would blame him for seizing all of my estate in tha scenario."

--medically injurious conduct that one "spouse" from a same-sex marriage pursued toward the other "spouse" in that same-sex marriage, such as through one partner's deliberate pursuit of cited "rough sex" with his spouse, possibly involving the forceful insertion of a foreign object into that spouse's anus;

--intergenerational exploitation of the younger partner in a same-sex "marriage" by his comparatively affluent older "spouse" --- an older man who is, in fact, revealed through divorce-court testimony to have been an infamous and sadistic "Sugar Daddy" figure very injurious to the emotional, psychological, medical, moral, religious, and intellectual health of the younger "spouse" in that "same-sex marriage."

--mental cruelty exhibited by one same-sex-marriage spouse toward another;

--confessions by one "spouse" in a "same-sex marriage" that "I regarded my same-sex marriage partner as so intellectually and culturally inferior to myself and so weak as a conversation partner, and so unpleasant to me, that I almost never spoke with him or went on social outings with him.

"Nearly all of the time I spent with him during my waking or conscious hours was limited to the sex act per se, which was about 15 minutes per day, at most. Any other activity with him would have been inconceivable to me. He was a guaranteed sex partner for me, and that was all."

--confessions by one or both "same-sex marriage" partners that they had had frequent verbal and physical fights or altercations with each other throughout their weeks or months of marriage together;

--testimony indicating that one or both spouses in any given "same-sex marriage" were, in fact, pathological liars;

---a divorce-court confession by one estranged partner in that same-sex marriage that he had gotten married to the other male person "primarily because he had a very good comprehensive health insurance policy, and he had promised me I could get full coverage under his policy if I agreed to marry him.

"After we crossed the altar together, though, he suddenly told me that he now expected me to get my own health insurance policy. He said he wanted me to be as self-reliant as possible, in case our marriage were to fail. So I ended up with no health insurance at all, and my complete certainty that I'd been betrayed by him from day one!"

---divorce-court testimony by one estranged partner in that same-sex marriage that "I agreed to get married to him only after he repeatedly threatened to kill me if I didn't. He repeatedly warned me that if I didn't agree to his demand that I marry him, he would do everything in his power to cause me to die young. He threatened to poison me himself or pay someone else to poison me.

"He also threatened to tailgate me on the highway until he had triggered a fatal motor-vehicle accident for me. He also threatened to subject me to non-stop noise pollution until he triggered a fatal heart attack from me."

--the divorce-court allegation by the estranged spouse from a same-sex marriage that "the defendant frequently stated to me that whenever he was angry with me, he would enter my anus twice as fast as usual during sodomy with me. He stated to me that he entered my anus fast on those occasions because he wanted to inflict severe pain on me. 'I am doing this in order to punish you and teach you a lesson!' he would shout at me during high-speed sexual penetration of my anus. 'You are my slave, and you must be totally submissive toward me at all times!', the defendant would state with anger in his voice."

---testimony by one estranged spouse from a same-sex marriage in divorce court that "he promised me just before we got married that he has no involvement of any type with any illicit drug. Then one week after we got married, I suddenly discovered his Big Bong Collection hidden away in his bedroom closet. It turned out he had been collecting marijuana bongs as his favorite hobby for the last 10 years, and he never told me about that before we tied the knot.

"He told me he regards Marijuana Bongs as the Ultimate Phallic Symbol. When I asked him why he had lied to me, he replied that he hadn't. He told me he doesn't consider marijuana to be an illicit drug, since medical doctors sometimes prescribe marijuana for their patients in states like Oregon and California, he said."

----divorce-court confessions by at least one partner from a same-sex marriage that he did not love or even significantly like the other individual at the time when they got married, and that he himself had in fact been pressured or forced or compelled into marrying the other individual, whether through financial vulnerability on his own part, or because he was victimized by blackmail, bribery, extortionism, threats of retaliation against himself, or victimized by kidnapping, hostage-taking, entrapment, illegal or unauthorized electronic surveillance, or stalking, that, in each such case, had been perpetrated against himself by the other individual, or by associates or relatives of that individual.

---divorce-court allegations by the estranged lesbian partner from a lesbian marriage in which she states to the court that "my female spouse was addicted to collecting dildos as her primary pastime, and she would spend hundreds of dollars a month on purchasing new dildos to add to her collection. She owned 10,000 dildos of a wide variety of sizes, and she frequently stated to me that she would not be happy until she owned at least 1 million dildos ranging in length from five inches to 20 inches. I nearly went into bankruptcy because of my female spouse's dildo-crazed spending sprees. Your Honor, I am alleging in this divorce lawsuit that my female lesbian partner exhibited mental cruelty and infidelity toward me in that and other ways."