ADDITIONAL IDEAS ON HOW TO HELP A TEENAGE GIRL AVOID SUSTAINING AN UNWANTED PREGNANCY:

---Urge her to memorize several pithy sayings that can help to protect her against any risk of her sustaining an unwanted pregnancy during her teenage years. Among those wise sayings you urge her to memorize might be: "Proximity breeds pregnancy"; "Sleeping Alone is Bliss", "ANY pregnancy to me is unwanted"; "Pregnancy-prevention is a life-safer"; and "I seek an A-plus in Pregnancy Prevention"; "I do NOT want to get knocked up at age 17"; "I lead a Sperm-Free Lifestyle"; "The knowledge I seek with him is NOT Biblical"; "the knowledge I seek to glean with him is NOT carnal"; etc.                                                                                                                                                                              
---Urge her to request in advance that for each of her first 10 dates with any given teenage boy or young man, they both agree to not discuss the subject of sex or their previous or current romantic life or any of their romantic fantasies or sexual fantasies during any of those first 10 dates they have together.

In getting to know the teenage boy or young man on strictly platonic and non-sexual terms, the teenage girl you seek to befriend can gain valuable insight about whether she is, in fact, compatible with that teenage boy or young man from a strictly-platonic and non-sexual standpoint.

One way the teenage girl can help promote platonic (non-sexual) topics, and no sexual topics, in conversations with her male dating partner is for her to pose a question to him during their date such as, "What are your leading STRICTLY-PLATONIC PASSIONS IN LIFE?"

If the teenage boy or young man replies by citing platonic passions that appeal to the teenage girl, that is grounds for celebrating that sublimely pleasurable moment in a strictly-platonic and polite manner. 

If, on the other hand, she does not identify with or feel comfortable with any of his own platonic passions, it is good for her to know at a very early point about that possible platonic-relationships incompatibility between the two of them, based on that very crucial and often-accurate criterion.

---Recommend to her that during each of her dates with any given teenage boy or young man, she should pose several or more polite questions to him about his background and moral values and political and religious beliefs and personal beliefs and goals and priorities. Those substantive questions will politely remind her male dating partner that she is interested in him as a human being, rather than as a "stud or sex partner in the bedroom".

--Invite her to meet with you and a friendly young unwed mother who did sustain an unwanted pregnancy, and who has suffered a lot because of that unwanted pregnancy. The three of you could have tea and conversation in a quiet coffeehouse or tea parlor.

---Suggest that when she goes out on dates during her teenage years, she should politely insist that her male dating partner return her home by no later than 9 p.m. or 10 p.m. after each date. That automatic "our date ends at 8:30 p.m." or "our date ends at 9:30 p.m." message to her male dating partner will help to prevent the two of them from "going too far" with each other, so to speak.

---Suggest that she please refrain from revealing any portion of her breasts, such as would occur from her wearing a low-cut blouse or a see-through blouse, at any time during her first 10 or first 20 dates with any given male dating partner of hers. This will help to discourage the male dating partner from getting excessively physical with her in their first 10 or 20 dates.

---Recommend that she refrain from "going bra-less" during her first 10 or 20 dates with any given male dating partner of hers. This will help her to avoid inviting the teenage boy she is dating to conclude that "she wants me to fondle her breasts, and that is why she is making a bra-less statement for our date. She is also reminding me that she is openly naked up above, since her breasts are jiggling, and she wants me to help her experience what it is like to be naked down below, too. Her quest for a sexual symmetry of that type is very obvious to me. It's a form of foreplay she is doing, and I'm getting an erection just thinking about it."

---Recommend that she refrain from spreading her legs suggestively at any time during her first 10 or 20 dates with a boy or young man. This will convey the right message to him that she is NOT "open" to having sex with him at any time during her high school years.


---Suggest that she please refrain from wearing any micro-skirt or mini-skirt at any time during her first 10 or 20 dates with any given male dating partner for herself. This will also help to discourage the male dating partner from getting excessively physical with her in their first 10 or 20 dates together.

---Recommend that she end the date immediately if she ever observes at any time a bulge in the crotch area of the boy's or young man's trousers at any time during their date together.  That bulge indicates that the boy or young man is having an erection from intense sexual desire toward her during their date.

 Boys and young men who get erections are all the more likely to then attempt to go all the way with her during their date, since they may subscribe to the view that "my body knows what's good for it, so it'd obvious that finding her hole and exploring her hole with my penis are the only natural outcome from this date," as he may note to himself. 

Otherwise, he may interpret his erect penis on that date as "a reminder that she is being a 'Prick Tease' with me tonight, and she is begging for sex with me through her flirtation with me that triggered the erection," as he may think to himself. 

A third possibility is that he may interpret his erect penis as "a message from God that He wants me to have sex with her tonight, since the Spirit has moved my body with this very obvious command from God that I share my body with her tonight, in keeping with my religion's emphasis on hospitality and generosity and love toward others," as he may note to himself. "She is not my next-door neighbor, but she definitely lives in my section of town, and God has commanded me to Love Thy Neighbor, so she obviously fits the description of the kind of person I'm expected by God to make love to. And it's only fair that I share my semen with her, for the sake of full religion-inspired generosity toward her during our date together. My Cup Runneth over, as my Bible has emphasized, and of course it's my responsibility tonight during this date to simply LET my cup runneth over without anything interfering with that cup-runneth-over event I will be having with her tonight."


---Recommend, at the very least, that she make a point of commenting in an assertive, politely confrontive manner if she ever observes during her date with a boy or young man that there is a bulge in his trouser at his crotch area. 
She could do this by saying something like, "I see that you are getting an erection from this date, but I hope you realize that I cannot have any contact with your genitals in our dates together. I value NOT getting pregnant during my high school years." By confronting the boy or young man with what she directly observed with her own eyes, this might help to discourage him from attempting to have sex with her during that date.

--Recommend that she end the date promptly and in a polite manner if she observes while directly facing the boy or young man she is dating that his pupils appear to be dilated. Dilated pupils are an obvious indication that he wants to have sex with her during that date, since he is "turned on" by her, so to speak. 
Another possibility is that the dilated pupils indicate that the boy or young man is high on an illicit drug, and is attempting to conceal that information about himself. 

Either way, the teenage girl is much more likely to avoid getting pregnant if she politely ends the date shortly after observing dilated pupils in the eyes of her male dating partner.

--Recommend that she end the date immediately if at any time the boy or young man she is dating verbalizes sexual innuendos or risque plays on words that she identifies as "flagrant attempts at turning me on" or "examples of foreplay attempts by himself during our date together, with his obvious goal tonight being to consummate everything with me in the nude."

---Recommend that she jot down a list of possible or likely undesirable consequences for her if she ever sustains an unwanted pregnancy at any time during her teenage years.

 Among the disadvantages to getting pregnant at that age might be: (1) she cannot afford to pay for the many financial expenses she will incur from being pregnant at such a young age; (2) she is not emotionally ready to become a mother; (3) it would not be fair to an infant of hers if she attempts to raise that infant without the biological father of that infant present in the same household; (4) being a parent demands lots of time by the mother, and this will interfere with her ability to pursue studies at a school during that period; (5) some people will regard an unwanted pregnancy as evidence that the teenage girl is sexually promiscuous and "loose", and this image problem could be very harmful to the self-esteem of that young mother.

---Suggest that she please refrain from wearing any blouse or T-shirt that contains a profane message or obscene image on that blouse or T-shirt. 
Among the possibilities for messages she will want to avoid declaring to the entire world through the words emblazoned on her attire are: "F-ck" (profanity), "Bite Me!", "Eat Me!", "I'm a Vampire, and I Love to Suck on Human Flesh!", "Ask Me About My Favorite Vocabulary Word that Begins With the Letter 'F'!", "My Favorite Pastime Begins With the Letter 'F'!", "Let's Go All the Way Together!", "Making Love is My Favorite Pastime!", "Ask Me About my G-Spot", "I'm Available," 'My Breasts Can Do More than Just Feed an Infant!", "DO YOU FIND ME TIT-ILLATING?", "I GET WET DOWN UNDER WHENEVER I'M WITH YOU!", "I'm a Nympho!" "I'm the Sort of Girl Your Mother Warned You About," "I'm a Naughty Girl!" "Girls Just Want to Have Fu--un!", "I'm a Playboy Bunny, and I Love to Hop Into Bed With Hunks Like You!", "Are You Man Enough to Go All the Way With Me Tonight?", "Me Jane--Are you Tarzan?", "I'm Crazy About You, So Let's Get Crazy Together Tonight!", "I'm a Playgirl, and I Order You to Unzip You Trousers!" "You Turn Me On!", "Are You Looking for a Slave Girl to Do Everything You Order Me to Do in Bed?", "You Would Make a Nice Centerfold in Playgirl Magazine!", "Ask Me How Many Orgasms I can Achieve Per Minute," "I Do It Multiply!", "Legalize Victimless Crimes", "I LIKE IT HOT!" "MY AUTOBIOGRAPHY IS ENTITLED 'W-H-O-R-E'!", 'ASK ME IF I'M A PORNO STAR", "SPREADING MY LEGS IS MY FAVORITE ACTIVITY," "I'M WILLING TO FAKE MY ORGASMS FOR YOU ANYTIME," "ARE YOU MAN ENOUGH TO GO ALL THE WAY WITH ME TONIGHT?", etc.

---Suggest that she obtain a list of which male youths at her school have a reputation for having gotten at least one other girl at her school pregnant out of wedlock, or for having themselves boasted about getting or planning to get a girl pregnant out of wedlock. That list could be labeled as the "Unwanted-Pregnancy Perpetrator Suspects List." 
You could then recommend that she consider NOT dating any of the boys or young men who have a reputation for getting a girl pregnant out of wedlock, or who have a reputation for boasting about either getting a girl pregnant out of wedlock or planning to get a girl pregnant out of wedlock.

---Suggest that she refrain from dating any male teenager who has a reputation for attempting to force himself upon a girl during a date. Regardless of whether that male teenager has ever been formally charged with the crime of "date rape" in a court of law or with campus police, she might want to consider excluding from her dating prospects list any of the young men who have acquired a reputation as being possible or suspected date rapists.

----Suggest that she refrain from dating any young man who has a reputation for verbalizing profane or obscene speech. It stands to reason that any young man fitting that description---someone who delights in the obscene and the profane---is more likely to pressure a teenage girl he is dating to participate in X-rated activities with him during that date.


----Suggest that she have a policy in advance of offering a polite "no" if any young man she is dating informs her that weather conditions and driving conditions are bad, or he is feeling very tired or she appears to be very fatigued, so he plans to rent a hotel room for the two of them that night as a way of "waiting until the weather or the driving conditions get better before I drive you home" or "giving us a chance to get some rest before I drive you home," as he might put it to the teenage girl.


---Suggest that she have a policy in advance of contacting one of her parents or close friends and asking that trusted person to pick her up and give her a ride home as soon as possible, if at any time the young man she is dating informs her or indicates to her that he himself is either high on an illicit drug or inebriated (drunk). 

This policy makes sense, since teenage boys and young men who are high on an illicit drug or drunk are much more likely to attempt to force themselves upon a teenage girl than are boys and young men who are sober.

---Suggest that she have a policy in advance of contacting one of her parents or close friends and asking that trusted person to pick her up and give her a ride home as soon as possible, if she herself ever observes or learns at any time that the boy or young man she is dating that evening has violated the law in any noteworthy way during that date. For instance, if she observes the young man drive through a red light while driving her to a restaurant, or if she observes the boy she is dating enter a convenience store and attempt to purchase alcohol as a minor during that date, this is an immediate "red flag" that she needs to contact a trusted third party on her cell phone and ask them to pick her up and drive her home ASAP.
The teenage girl facing that type of situation can politely state to her dating partner that she needs to "powder her nose" or otherwise use a women's restroom, and politely add that "I will be gone for only a minute," or words to that effect, in order to avoid triggering suspicion in the young man she is dating that evening.

---Recommend that in her dating practices she strive to maintain at least two feet of physical distance between herself and the teenage boy or young man who is her dating partner on any given date. That two-foot buffer zone will help to protect her against any risk of her being impregnated by her male dating partner on any given date.

---Recommend that she choose against "rooming" with a teenage boy or young man as her only roommate, since  "proximity breeds pregnancy," as they say.